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Quotes about kindness

50 verified quotes from 30 writers, c. 475 BC to 1925.

Quotes 1 to 25 of 50, page 1 of 2.

The quotes on kindness here are less about grand gestures than about attention: listening carefully to what someone says, not keeping a register of wrongs, giving a portion of yourself rather than a present. Dickens’s A Christmas Carol supplies several, as you might expect from a story that is about a man learning exactly that.

George Eliot ends Middlemarch by crediting the growing good of the world to people who lived faithfully a hidden life. Shakespeare, Charlotte Brontë, Emily Dickinson and Kahlil Gibran make similar points in their own registers. Each line was matched in the full text of the public-domain edition we link.

  1. What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others

    Confucius, The Analects, c. 475 BCTranslated by James Legge (1861)

    Our note: Asked for one word to guide a whole life, Confucius offers reciprocity and explains it this way.

    Verified in the full text of The Analects on Project Gutenberg · Project Gutenberg ebook #3330

  2. …we ought not to retaliate or render evil for evil to any one, whatever evil we may have suffered from him

    Socrates, in Crito by Plato, c. 399 BCTranslated by Benjamin Jowett (1871)

    Our note: Socrates in his cell, arguing with his friend Crito about how to answer wrong.

    Verified in the full text of Crito on Project Gutenberg · Project Gutenberg ebook #1657

  3. The man did not know the rest of my faults, for he would not have mentioned these only

    Epictetus, The Encheiridion, c. AD 125Translated by George Long (1877)

    Our note: Epictetus's suggested reply when told that someone has been speaking ill of you.

    Verified in the full text of The Encheiridion on Project Gutenberg · Project Gutenberg ebook #10661 · Collected in A Selection from the Discourses of Epictetus with the Encheiridion

  4. Begin the morning by saying to thyself, I shall meet with the busybody, the ungrateful, arrogant, deceitful, envious, unsocial.

    Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, c. AD 180Translated by George Long (1862)

    Our note: Book II opens with this reminder; he goes on to say such people act from ignorance, and he will not be angry with them.

    Verified in the full text of Meditations on Project Gutenberg · Project Gutenberg ebook #15877 · Collected in The Thoughts of the Emperor Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

  5. The best way of avenging thyself is not to become like [the wrong-doer].

    Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, c. AD 180Translated by George Long (1862)

    Our note: Book VI.

    Verified in the full text of Meditations on Project Gutenberg · Project Gutenberg ebook #15877 · Collected in The Thoughts of the Emperor Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

  6. Accustom thyself to attend carefully to what is said by another, and as much as it is possible, be in the speaker's mind.

    Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, c. AD 180Translated by George Long (1862)

    Our note: Book VI, on really listening.

    Verified in the full text of Meditations on Project Gutenberg · Project Gutenberg ebook #15877 · Collected in The Thoughts of the Emperor Marcus Aurelius Antoninus

  7. Endeavour to be patient in bearing with other men's faults and infirmities whatsoever they be, for thou thyself also hast many things which have need to be borne with by others.

    Thomas à Kempis, The Imitation of Christ, c. AD 1427Translated by William Benham (1874)

    Our note: A plain reminder that we need the same patience we are asked to give.

    Verified in the full text of The Imitation of Christ on Project Gutenberg · Project Gutenberg ebook #1653

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